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The call came a few hours after President Donald Trump issued a jarring series of tweets (which we've now come to accept as official White House statements): "Please be advised that the United States Government will not accept or allow Transgender individuals to serve in any capacity in the U.S. Military," he posted. "Our military must be focused on decisive and overwhelming victory and cannot be burdened with the tremendous medical costs and disruption that transgender in the military would entail."
Ingram's friend is an openly trans pilot who's been in the military 15 years — five years away from retirement and the crucial benefits that come with it. Did Trump's tweet change this plan? Was she still allowed to work?
Neither Trump nor the Department of Defense has clarified his sweeping statement, one that affects the thousands of trans people currently serving in the military, those in training, those hoping to join, and proud trans veterans. It even appears the House Republicans who had been pestering him to drop gender reassignment surgery coverage for members of the military didn't want him to go this far.
"This is like someone told the White House to light a candle on the table and the WH set the whole table on fire,” an unnamed House Republican aide told Politico. No one seems quite certain how to move forward.
Ingram, who is the former president and current treasurer of American Veterans for Equal Rights (the country's oldest organization of LGBT veteran), didn't have any answers to offer his concerned friend. But he's familiar with the kind of discrimination Trump was suggesting.
"No one in the military should feel discriminated against. I went through that, and I don't wish it on anyone," Ingram said. "To be blunt, it's unpatriotic."
Ingram was discharged from the Army in 1994, when President Bill Clinton passed "Don't Ask Don't Tell," a now-defunct policy barring openly gay, lesbian, or bisexual people from the military. Since he had already come out as a gay man in the military, he was automatically discharged. Trump's threatening tweet felt eerily reminiscent to Ingram.
"I'm very concerned for active servicemembers. They're already doing work that's incredibly stressful, and now they don't know if they'll be fired tomorrow," Ingram said. "It's a disservice to men and women who just want to do their job."
- Sgt. Jamie Hash
- Sgt. Jamie Hash before and after transitioning into a woman in the Air Force.
But like many Americans, Ingram said he can't fully take Trump's tweeting seriously, who knows if he'll take it all back in a week or two. But the initial message it sends to trans troops — that their boss doesn't support their general existence — is hard to erase.
"It's difficult to be trans to begin with in this society. But I have never known anyone as courageous as an openly trans person in the military," he said.
Wednesday afternoon, Ingram heard an military plane buzz by overhead — a familiar sound in San Antonio, "Military City, USA". This time, however, he said he paused to consider whether the pilot was trans. If they were worried.
Staff Sergeant Jamie Hash, a trans woman and Air Force analyst at San Antonio's Randolph Air Force Base, said the possibility of losing her job is more saddening than stressful.
"Although the military transgender process has been very difficult to navigate because of its infancy, this past year of serving openly and authentically as a transgender woman has been the best year of my life," Hash, who's served for 6 years, told the Current.
Coming out as a trans woman to her fellow airmen actually brought her unit closer together, Hash said. Instead of distancing themselves from her, her unit became a crucial support system. She has yet to hear anything about how Trump's alert will affect her job.
But until then, Hash said, "I will continue to fulfill my mission and put integrity first, service before self, and excellence in all that I do because I am an American Airman."