I think I made a mistake. I am really not so sure, I haven’t made up my mind completely and not sure if I will ever come to a conclusion I can settle on.
Last week, while on vacation with my husband and toddler, I saw a pregnant woman smoking. She arrived to the beach with her group and immediately began lighting up one cigarette after the next. I snapped a photo of the woman and immediately tweeted it.
I was furious yet completely smug in my thought that this woman deserved every bit of shame that would come her way.
Now, over a week later, I am still thinking about my tweet and I am not so sure my public condemnation of her actions was appropriate. I still think she is a disgusting pig, and I can feel free to continue to think that way, but in reflection there are plenty of things I do as a person and a parent that I am sure would encourage an onlooker to shame me.
So there you go. Perhaps there are tweets, Facebook posts and Reddit photos of my “bad” behavior. I still do think the smoking pregnant woman is a disgusting pig and now feel not quite as bad about calling her out for it. Maybe.
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